Recognize the Moment Before Silence Writes Your Story: RAISE Series Part 1
2026-02-10
People can't choose you if you're invisible. And when you're silent, people think you're satisfied.
This is the first episode in my five-part RAISE framework series, and we’re starting with something most people completely overlook: the moment the stakes quietly shift. You can’t advocate for yourself if you don’t even recognize it’s time.
I’ll share the exact moment I learned this the hard way and why recognizing these subtle shifts is the first step to building real influence at work.
In this episode, I’ll cover:
How to recognize the moment when the stakes shift
Why silence feels safer and how it sabotages you
The leadership habit that separates decision-makers from the rest
This is the first episode in my five-part RAISE framework series, and we’re starting with something most people completely overlook: the moment the stakes quietly shift. You can’t advocate for yourself if you don’t even recognize it’s time.
I’ll share the exact moment I learned this the hard way and why recognizing these subtle shifts is the first step to building real influence at work.
In this episode, I’ll cover:
How to recognize the moment when the stakes shift
Why silence feels safer and how it sabotages you
The leadership habit that separates decision-makers from the rest
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📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/the-art-of-everyday-negotiation
Work With Me: Speaking, corporate training, and executive coaching:
www.susietomenchok.com/services
_____________________
Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok
Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.
📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/the-art-of-everyday-negotiation
Work With Me: Speaking, corporate training, and executive coaching:
www.susietomenchok.com/services
_____________________
Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok
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