What Changes the Day You Get Promoted
2026-09-15
You get the promotion and then you show up to your staff meeting, run your one-on-ones, and jump in to solve problems exactly like you always have. You're waiting for the title to do the work of changing how people see you.
Weeks go by and nothing shifts. And it's not them...it's you. The room doesn't change until you do.
That's the negotiation lens most people miss when they think about leadership. You're setting terms with everyone around you every single day, whether you mean to or not. I'm walking you through the three shifts that actually move the needle, and the first one has nothing to do with your title at all.
In this episode, I'll cover:
What you need to say to your team before anything else can shift
The habit in your one-on-ones you didn't realize was working against you
How to borrow someone else's leadership style without losing your own
Weeks go by and nothing shifts. And it's not them...it's you. The room doesn't change until you do.
That's the negotiation lens most people miss when they think about leadership. You're setting terms with everyone around you every single day, whether you mean to or not. I'm walking you through the three shifts that actually move the needle, and the first one has nothing to do with your title at all.
In this episode, I'll cover:
What you need to say to your team before anything else can shift
The habit in your one-on-ones you didn't realize was working against you
How to borrow someone else's leadership style without losing your own
🎯 Done feeling overlooked while you watch others move forward?
Executive coaching helps you advocate for yourself, get clear on where you're going, and take ownership of your next step. Book your call here: https://calendly.com/susietomenchok/new-meeting
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🚀 Ready to Get What You Want?
Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.
📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/our-book--the-art-of-negotiation
Learn more about booking me for a workshop: www.susietomenchok.com/workshops-and-training
_____________________
Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok
Executive coaching helps you advocate for yourself, get clear on where you're going, and take ownership of your next step. Book your call here: https://calendly.com/susietomenchok/new-meeting
_____________________
🚀 Ready to Get What You Want?
Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.
📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/our-book--the-art-of-negotiation
Learn more about booking me for a workshop: www.susietomenchok.com/workshops-and-training
_____________________
Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok
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